My philosophy.
We all bring pain and patterns from our past into current relationships, which can make them feel loaded, tense, and stuck at times. But with awareness and understanding, we can let go of the constraints of the past and make changes in our interpersonal lives.
I have always been highly attuned to the thoughts and feelings that tend to go unspoken and create tension. Some emotions, desires and needs feel too big, too scary, too important, or too shameful to say out loud. Finding the words to express ourselves clearly is difficult. Therapy creates the space to share safely, and provides opportunities to better understand ourselves and better connect with loved ones.
My clients find my approach warm and accepting. I will kindly challenge you to use both accountability and self-compassion. If this sounds like a good fit for you, I’d love to hear from you.